Over qualifying leads to many lonely and sleepless nights plagued with what if questions and the possibility of what could’ve been. Life is too short to sit there waiting on the fence for the perfect woman to fall into your lap. Too many guys are looking for the woman who meets all of their qualifications and standards but unfortunately this girl doesn’t exists. From this illusion guys tend to over qualify and become too harsh on women in the beginning. It’s equivalent of women looking for Mr. Right and grilling every guy she meets while downstairs collects cobwebs.

Long-term relationships take work. If you’re not up to it then and you just want to score tonight then you know it’s easier said then done. You obviously need to have confidence, but you can’t just pick this up overnight. If you’re not the most suave guy in the world then you need help. Just going to a bar isn’t going to land you in bed with a hot girl. Here are five sure-fire ways to giving you a leg up on the competition and getting lucky tonight: