You can have beautiful women in your life—as many beautiful women as you want—if you’re willing to accept change

A common theme with many guys I work with is resistance to change. All of us were brought up with a certain set of beliefs about life and the world—some good, some bad, but all affected how we perceive ourselves. Some of these beliefs came from our childhood religion, our parents, or society’s values in general. These beliefs colored our existence and the life decisions that we made from childhood through early adulthood.

by Cory Skyy (www.coryskyy.com)

I’ve noticed something about a lot of instructors who teach guys questionable methods to meet and date women.

They teach control.

What do I mean by that? They want guys to believe that the way to make things happen with a woman is to control every situation.

For example, many instructors teach guys how to get a girl’s phone number, commonly known as a “#-close”… and they teach guys to get it as fast as possible.

That’s B.S. thinking.

I’m going to talk a little about my teaching method this week. One of my main tools for teaching guys how to be great with women is affirmations. I have several different ways to apply affirmations into your life—ways that I’ve developed over a period of years. (There are other techniques I teach as well, but affirmations are a universally accessible way to get started.)

By Alex of
Inner Game Reframe

One of the top factors that kills a woman’s attraction for a man very quickly is him feeling like he is not enough. Being enough means that you don’t need anything outside of yourself to make you happy or feel good about yourself-you derive your sense of self esteem from within.

When you feel like you aren’t enough you search for things to compensate for your lack of feeling naturally attractive. You buy nice cars in order to get women. You workout and get into great shape JUST to get women. You buy drinks for women JUST to get them to talk to you. And you get into state JUST to get the girl to like you.