May 24th, 2007 by Eric a.k.a. Disco
at www.approachanxiety.com

She’s sitting across the room. She’s beautiful. You’ve got the skills to approach her. Maybe it’s a nightclub or a a bookstore and nobody knows each other.

Or maybe it’s a social circle situation. Maybe a house party. Maybe a dinner party. A seminar. A yoga class. An improv comedy class. A work function. A dance class.

In a non-social circle situation, you can approach the girl right away. Or you can talk to other people in the room. It’s not as big a deal.

What follows is a list of places that you probably don’t associate as prime woman-meeting spots. However, these are wonderfully secret hidden sources of lonely women waiting for you. I recommend that if you show up at one of the following events or places and there are no women you are interested in, move on immediately. If you quickly move on, and keep going on to the next opportunity, you are destined for success.

1. Yoga classes
Your local yoga class is a great place to meet new-age women. Yoga, in case you don’t know, is a form of exercise similar to stretching. Yoga comes from India and was used as a form of transcending the body and mind together. A woman who has been active in yoga for years usually has a wonderfully toned body. That’s another added advantage!

Seduction Chronicles writes:

The Art of Rapport Workshop is Pickup101’s day game workshop. It goes over all things day game, conversational and comfort building during that time. Check out Magnus from BristolLair’s review of The Art of Rapport Workshop by Pickup101.

Sean Newman invited me along to his London workshop this weekend. I’m careful to only recommend products on bristollair.com that I really believe in, and the last PickUp 101 event I attended was two years ago in San Francisco, so I was interested to see what they were up to.

Derek From www.seductiontutor.com Tells us:

The worst problem guys have is that they can’t seem to overcome their hesitation, fear, and serious attitude around women. The problem is, we don’t have the right people to model and copy – guys who are just naturals with women.

We’ve all known that guy from school or work who just seemed to get lots of women effortlessly, without lines or routines or seduction formulas. This guy was just, well, a Natural with women and we envied his seemingly magic talent. Another group of men that has an uncanny success with women is The Charismatic. Such men possess a raw charisma that shines through in group situations.

The best social/business skills to have is natural vibing and building connections

I took Art of Rapport/Day Game from Pickup 101 last September, and my life has entirely changed since then. My relationships with women, friends, and family at at least 10 times better than what they used to be.

Deep rapport and connection is something you won’t really understand until you experience it. So if you thinking to yourself, I know what rapport is, think again. I do not know anyone outside pickup 101 who has talked about the concepts they talk about in their workshop, with the same depth and innovation. The truth is - rapport is not routine-based. Its very individualized. It truly is an art.

“Double Your Dating” by David DeAngelo

We recently discovered a great book called “Double Your Dating” by David DeAngelo. In our opinion, it’s the best place for a guy to start who wants to become more successful with women and dating.

We’re really excited about it, because these days it’s definitely not easy for a guy to find dating advice that works.

So what makes this book different than everything else out there?

Well, mainly David DeAngelo himself.

You see, David D. is a smart, educated regular guy. A regular guy who for the longest time, like so many others, couldn’t figure out why he didn’t have the success with women he wanted.

Approach anxiety. That incomprehensible fear that overtakes you when you want to go talk to that beautiful woman. Logically you don’t care what happens, but for some reason, your body prevents you from doing it. Here are ten tips to help handle your approach anxiety.

So, I am at my favorite Greek place in west valley for lunch with my boss. Someone eating next to us says something like, “guys are so one-dimensional…they have to focus completely on their phone while text messaging..”  It really got my attention..I looked around…and I see two cute nurses man-bashing for silly stuff.  I had to step up for all the man.

Fast-forward to ten minutes and they are bragging about how women can text message with their eyes closed etc etc…