By Alex of
Inner Game Reframe

One of the top factors that kills a woman’s attraction for a man very quickly is him feeling like he is not enough. Being enough means that you don’t need anything outside of yourself to make you happy or feel good about yourself-you derive your sense of self esteem from within.

When you feel like you aren’t enough you search for things to compensate for your lack of feeling naturally attractive. You buy nice cars in order to get women. You workout and get into great shape JUST to get women. You buy drinks for women JUST to get them to talk to you. And you get into state JUST to get the girl to like you.

Over qualifying leads to many lonely and sleepless nights plagued with what if questions and the possibility of what could’ve been. Life is too short to sit there waiting on the fence for the perfect woman to fall into your lap. Too many guys are looking for the woman who meets all of their qualifications and standards but unfortunately this girl doesn’t exists. From this illusion guys tend to over qualify and become too harsh on women in the beginning. It’s equivalent of women looking for Mr. Right and grilling every guy she meets while downstairs collects cobwebs.

Are you trying to attract that hot girl who works near you with little or no success?
If you’re not listening to the Dean’s new radio show then your missing out fellas. If your serious about learning game and how to be a player and pick up ladies then you need to listen to the Dean’s latest podcast Beyond Dating.

Listen to the dean’s podcast and you will hear him chop up game with the boys. He discusses all aspects of the game. Dating, pimping, playin, and sex.. He will answer all your questions and trust me, he is very very funny. Most shows about dating and pickup get boring after 10 minutes of the monotone vocals.

Be A Man
by  Pook

There is a prize to the person who correctly answers this question, What is a Man? When asked what they want in a guy, women say simply, “A MAN!” But, alas!, real men are becoming more and more rare these days. Women are tired of the sensative wimps who have no backbones. One women even wrote a song about the subject, “Where have all the cowboys gone?”
So what is a Man? How should he act? Decades and centuries ago, the question was nonsense. But today in our feminized culture (this may be more in America then in other countries), most of us have been raised to believe that there is something inherently wrong with being a man and acting the way how a man should act. No wonder males don’t know how to act around women! No wonder websites like these exist!

What do you do when a woman isn’t looking at you or giving up IOI’s (signs of interest)!
I hear this question a lot from young guys who are struggling with finding their own level in the game. If you are one of them, then you might want to pay attention.

Let me talk about a few truths and ask you some questions to help stimulate some thoughts around this common problem.

1. Are you aware that if a woman isn’t looking at you then she isn’t interested in you. How many of you know this to be true?

The Pickup Artist receives Respect. Thats right a true man and a pickup artist will gain the respect of others. This does not only include women, all people in his circle and some outside. The pickup artist will not tolerate bad behavior from women. In fact a really great man who can successfully pick up women will give off a certain kind of energy when wherever he goes that he deserves to be respected. He doesn’t even subconsciously think about it. This is a part of his personality and character.

There is just something about being a natural - the pickup artist. You posses an understanding who you are, while expressing your identity.

Women find this very attractive.

Assuming of course these are the alpha characteristics that you are displaying. With pickup and the seduction arts, there is a very fine line with being yourself and being your best self. Sometimes while trying to find out where being your self ends and your better self begins our actions come across as mechanical or contrived.

Have you ever noticed that when you pick up women by treating and speaking to them in that familiar buddy or best friend tonality the interaction seems to go much better. There is a reason why in the Pick-Up community the gurus teach you guys to treat girls like your little bratty sister or “one of the boys.” You see when you talk to a girl like you speak to one of your best guy friends she feels like you are being more genuine with her and not falling into her beauty trap that most guys buy into. You don’t give her the high status that every other chump has been giving her all her life when they try to do their pick-up routine. So by not trying to pick her up by changing your voice and acting fake, she will start to connect with you more and she realizes that it’s totally normal for you to have beautiful friends that are women in your life, since you treat them all the same as the guys in your life.

Another Great PUA Article From You’re Favorite  Dating Coach Leroy Jackson

What Makes A Good Pickup Artist?

This question enters my head as I lie here on the floor typing on my computer.

Why am I lying here on the floor you ask?

Simple. I don’t want to buy a computer desk. It’s not that I can’t afford it. It is simply that I do not wish to spend any money on a computer desk. So I am content to lie here on the floor and type. Now, if a computer desk just so happened to be made available and free for the taking. You can bet that your favorite pick-up artist on the make will snatch it right up. Even if it involves some late night liberation.

In social animals, the alpha male or alpha female is the individual in the community whom the others follow and defer to. Wikipedia Definition

The Alpha Male

• The alpha-male in society is the top 1% of males who are sexually dominant. As in the animal kingdom the alpha’s are responsible for mating with something like 90% of the females.
• From a social dynamics perspective, alpha-males are perceived as having extremely high social value when compared to the other categories, and to society in general. For example alpha-males may include; movie stars, rock stars, night club owners, the super rich, the extremely good looking.

[excerpt]Awesome Anthony Robbins video on YouTube

Tony is talking about your model of the world and how it translates into all your behaviors. Make sure you watch this free video that wasn’t supposed to be uploaded to youtube before the company takes it down.

There are many valuable lessons Tony teaches you. Pay attention and improve your life and figure out your purpose.

The Top 10 Highest-Value Uses of Your Time

Reprinted below is a list of the top ten highest-value uses of your time, according to , author of The 80/20 Principle: The Secret to Success by Achieving More with Less.

This list is great — especially for web geeks, entrepreneurs and managers!

1. Things that advance your overall purpose in life
2. Things you have always wanted to do
3. Things already in the 20/80 relationship of time to results
4. Innovative ways of doing things that promise to slash the time required and/or multiply the quality of results

What is the difference between affection and attraction?
Written by Rion Williams

Which one would you rather have women feeling for you?

Attraction is the path that leads to sex. Affection is the path or reality of caring and niceness but lack of sexual interest.

When a woman feels affection for you, you’re probably too much of a nice guy. She may think of you as ‘just a friend’ or maybe even a potential husband who has ‘provider’ stamped all over his forehead.

Dear Speed Seduction Sucker,

If you had an ounce of brains, you’d unsubscribe from this list.

In fact, if you were at all awake, you’d unsubscribe from all of the damn daily friendly “tips” and “secret filled” messages you get from us pick up advisors and gurus, because none of us guys, including me, give a diddly shit about you, and our stuff mostly doesn’t work anyway.

We all secretly get together and laugh at you, what an idiot you are, and how we can conspire to con you out of every last penny.

Truth.