This seems to be a dreaded question many guys in the game have these days. Early on in the game we were taught to say silly cocky things to girls about our jobs and careers. I know i used to say all kinds of ridiculous shit. I told them i was stunt devil, ass model, slave trader, gypsy, garbage man, pool boy all sorts of crazy stuff like that. It wouuld always get a laugh, but eventually they are going to really want to know what it is that you do. I learned that the correct way ti answer this question is not to avoid it by being silly, but tell her what you love to do.

Most people think that who they are as a person and their personality is defined by their line of work or what they are doing right now. What you do is NOT who you are. Remember that.

Sean from pickup 101 says:

Personally, I likes to take that question ALWAYS as a chance to tell her about who I really am in a way that isn’t boring, and that opens up more conversation, not shuts it down. And it takes practice.

Anyone can say goofing around, “I’m an ass model.” But it takes a lot more creativity to tell her what you do in a way that is true and interesting.

Start talking about it. You have to have a story about what you do anyways, or you find the thing that you do isn’t very important at all.

It took me a long time to explain what I really do here, and it’s just recently come to me how to tell my story in a way that’s both fun and then gets deep.

So now i whenever asked this question i will always tell her what my passion in life is, what it is that brings me joy. What i love about my life. You will find that this response is not at all what she is expecting and because of it she will be more drawn to you. Every time i tell a woman what my passion in life is i see her eyes light up and she want to know more. You can tell her then or later, your choice. Now you can also ask her the same question and help her dig into her passion for life. While shes remembering them in front of you it will trigger emotions inside her and she will most likely connect them witih you and see you as a person of high value since you’ve now shown her something about her own life.

So i urge you to sit down and start brainstorming your answer to that question. “what is it that you do?” Make sure it’s really something your passionate about. If you hate your job tell her what you love to do, forget your job. If you need help with this you can email me. I’ll try to help out if i can.